So your girlfriend or your wife has completly freaked out and you still want to get her back. You love her and you would do anything to get her back. The problem is that you have run into a wall. You’re all ready to work things out but she has gone off the deep end and you have no idea about what to do to get her to change her mind and give you another chance.

Actually, getting your girlfriend or wife back is a very simple task. The problem is your point of view. You are emotionally involved in this problem so you’re not really thinking right. I could lay out for you exactly what to do but mentally you probably aren’t really ready for that right now. There is too much at stake and you would probably balk and not follow through when the moment of truth came. You want the nice way. You want the caring way to get her back. Unfortunately, much of what works goes against what your warm and fuzzy insides feel will actually work. Either way, I’m going to get you on the path to getting her back and we’ll see where we stand at the end of the rainbow.

Your first step in how to get a girl back should be to get as far away from her as possible. If you are living together you need to get out of there as soon as possible. If you are dating and you see each other all the time this might be a little bit difficult to do but it is a necessary step in how to get a girl back. You might think that talking to her or reminding her of the great times you had or flirting with her is going to win her over but you’re wrong. This stuff is only going to ruin your chances of ever getting her back and you need to get the heck out of Dodge as soon as possible.

Right now, your ex knows that you want to get back together with her and this stinks of desperation and neediness. A woman can smell this and see it in your eyes. She can sense it and hear it in your voice and until you’re in your right mind you need to stay away from her for a while. It is a turn off to women in general and in the wake of your breakup it makes your ex look at you as nothing but a pathetic man. I am sorry if this sounds harsh but I’m giving you the truth when most are just trying to candy coat this stuff for you.

Once you are out of sight you are out of mind and your next step is to cease all communications with her. Needless communications will just set off a chain reaction that will bring all the negative memories flooding back in your ex’s mind. The rule of the day is no communication with your ex until you are back to in your right mind and things start to balance out a bit. If you have to see your ex because you work together or you have children together, do you best to avoid all unnecessary communication. Be cool and calm but make it like a military operation. Get in, get what you need and get out, ok?

This might hurt you but no matter what you need to be strong. Your mind might talk to you and convince you to try to get in touch with her for any one of a hundred different reasons but you need to stay strong and not give in. No matter if you get lonely and just want to hear her voice or you suddenly get worried and just want to check on her, you need to resist that urge. This is not optional and you need to hold fast to this rule for at least a while. Until you are stronger, you need to resist the urge to contact your ex until you have this plan down.

Now it is time for the fun part of how to get a girl back. This is the time for you to get yourself back before you get back in touch with her again. It is time for you to get your head together and start living life again. It is time for you to get back to being that fun guy that she once enjoyed spending tme with and fell in love with. After all, you’re not going to get her back by being depressed and whiney or begging her for another chance. Keep your emotions in check and count on your ability to tweak her own emotional hot buttons to bring her back to you.

Understanding what actually moves a woman to change her mind is the real important part of getting her back. As you know, your ex is probably a little emotional at times. You have seen it and although it might not be your favorite thing about your ex, it is what you are going to use to get her back. Targeting her emotional hot buttons in a slightly stealthy way is the key to making her change her mind and come running back to you. This has nothing to do with being mean to her or torturing her emtionally but knowing how to bring her through the entire range of female emotions that is necessary to make her realize that she really does love you and that she made a mistake by breaking up with you is key to you getting her back and fast.

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